Bump rxml to 0.13.1

rxml 0.13.0 changed the quoting style to make it consistent, so we have
to patch up all affected places where we match exact strings.

tokio-xmpp/Cargo.toml

@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ tokio = { version = "1", features = ["net", "rt", "rt-multi-thread", "macros"] }
 tokio-stream = { version = "0.1", features = ["sync"] }
 webpki-roots = { version = "0.26", optional = true }
 rustls-native-certs = { version = "0.7", optional = true }
-rxml = { version = "0.12.0", features = ["compact_str"] }
+rxml = { version = "0.13.1", features = ["compact_str"] }
 rand = "0.8"
 syntect = { version = "5", optional = true }
 pin-project-lite = { version = "0.2" }

tokio-xmpp/ChangeLog

@@ -34,6 +34,7 @@ XXXX-YY-ZZ RELEASER <admin@example.com>
         delegate it to a hardware implementations if available.  This depends
         on the `tls-rust-ktls` feature. (!458, !490)
       - Building with insecure-tcp and no other feature got fixed.
+      - Update rxml dependency to 0.13.
 
 Version 4.0.0:
 2024-07-26 Maxime “pep” Buquet <pep@bouah.net>