quic: use RFC9000 version (#376)

* #1682: RFC9000 as main QUIC version

* removed extra ALPN values from the TLSConfig

* updated to quic-go v0.21.0

* only use h3

go.sum

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@@ -309,6 +311,8 @@ github.com/marten-seemann/qtls-go1-15 v0.1.4 h1:RehYMOyRW8hPVEja1KBVsFVNSm35Jj9M
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